Hester Goes Poly

I have moved my blog to a new domain. I'm still getting everything switched over. Until I get the new one up and running I wanted to post the link for anyone interested in keeping up with my poly journey. My experience with polyamorous dating is developing into a beautiful triad relationship that I will continue …

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Road Trip

So this time last week I was planning to go meet Brian and Liz for the first time. All the different emotions I was felling made the drive feel like I was on a rollercoaster the entire way up there. I was completely frantic. I was nervous like I was Fergie going up for my …

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Finding Olive

Polyamorous dating is by far the best dating experience I have ever had. So much of that is due to how absolutely fucking amazing Brian and Liz both are, both individually and their strengths as a couple with 20 years under them. The two of them have been so understanding and accommodating to me with …

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Along Came Poly

So I have always had this idea of what my future would be like. I’m talking about my ideal relationship. For me, it means waking up next to the loves of my life, two to be exact. Sure, I have tried having monogamous relationships. I have dated women and men separately and I enjoyed it …

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It’s Not Time Yet

The world looks different when you're about to lose the person you love most. The one truly good person you have ever known. It's like living in a parallel universe. Time moves too fast because you want more of it with them. You don't want them to go.  Pain seems to slow time down, drag …

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Can I call you?

I am so tired of people and their negative mindsets. It's exhausting. I cannot understand why it is so wrong for me to want changes and to want to do something to make those changes happen. I'm only one person not a genie and while I might not make a huge difference in comparison to …

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